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Senior Citizens
- Jawahar Swaminathan


Senior citizens - it could be the most befitting term ever coined to describe the elders. They are seniors by age and citizens still by rights. We have all seen them grow old and prime. These are people who spent their fortunes to let us earn our own. They held very little for themselves - so little that they would need to depend on us for the rest of their lives.

The wisdom they gained through their experiences is invaluable. They do pass it on to us through every possible opportunity they see. After all, we don't live longer to learn all through our own experiences. Each story they tell, every incident they narrate would have something in it for us to learn.

When it comes to love, they love us for what we are and not for what we could be. They know all our shortcomings. Yet they shower their affection and make us feel good. If we remember, they are the ones who first taught us to love our siblings and be kind to our neighbors. They sowed the first seed of love which is now well deep rooted in our hearts and gives us the confidence to make a lovable family on our own.

Forgiving is a virtue. We can't have a count of the number of times that we hurt their feelings - unintentionally or otherwise. We may wonder now how easily we were excused. Sometimes the way they forgive our most menacing mistakes shuns us from ever doing the same again.

Peace, fulfillment, joy are some of what we can relate to when we see them reclined on a bright sunny day, having nothing to do. They have indeed come quite far - far enough to rest. The morning walks, the teatime talks about the good old days and the bedtime stories for the little citizens in the family fill their seemingly long day.

Pass by without making noises. They are relishing their memories.

Happy living!

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