Beauty and our culture
Beauty is not the most important requisite for a human life. But
that does not mean that it does not have its own value. All our literature
praises the beauty of a woman in umpteen ways. When a parent begets
a baby girl or when a lad is getting married, everyone expects the
girl to be beautiful. It could be the beauty of hair, beauty of eyes,
the perfectness of nose and teeth, or it could be the beauty of body
curvature. Even in Ramayan, authored by poet Kamban, the beauty of
Sita is described in an exaggerated (sordid?) way. I myself am an
ardent supporter of the belief that Rama was depicted as human incarnation
of God Himself as no human being can be characterized as noble like
Him. If such is the veneration/commentary for the physical beauty
of a woman in our culture, as reflected by our literature, why is
that, of late, a few odd groups raise a hue and cry about beauty pageants.
Is beauty contest
a violation of our culture?
One should not overlook the fact that the beauty contests are not
the latest happenings and we have been conducting it for quite sometime.
However, this hue and cry started or coincided with Ms Aishwarya Rai
and Ms Sushmita Sen winning the titles in the international beauty
contests. The protest got aggravated when many others followed these
pretty women in the last 3-4 years. Let us debate on the arguments
in favor of and against these beauty contests.
The opponents of these contests say that it is an insult or violation
of our culture. They even say that recognizing and rewarding the beauty
is against womanhood. Do they mean Poet Kamban disrespect Mother Sita?
Coming back to culture, how many uncensored and censored movies and
stories get released or published that do not affect our culture.
The suggestive and compromising posters are if anything to be condemned
as they come onto your eyes when you drive on roads in towns and cities.
The kinds of dance movements choreographed in the latest movies give
the entire graphic details of the human copulation. Also, the dialogues
are many times very vulgar. Are these not assaults over our culture,
which considers sex as a secret, and not-to-be talked about matter?
I do not subscribe to the view that sex is advocated in our culture
as a secret subject. But many believe so due to the distortions that
our culture had undergone. In most of our temple towers, the sculptures
show the descriptions of sexual postures of many forms of sex. This
is not discussed here to support the obscene vulgarity in movies/stories.
This is brought to the notice to stress a point that even the sex
when described in a sophisticated way was considered part of the culture
by our predecessors. 10-15 years back one would have hesitated to
talk about condoms even in a friend's circle. I remember the controversy
over director Bhagyaraj's dialogue in one movie where he had used
the word "Nirodh" (one trade name for condom). After a lot of discussion,
Sensor Board finally cleared this dialogue, probably keeping the rate
of population growth in mind. Today, the commercial advertisements
on this product describe everything about this product. These are
highlighted here to suggest that the culture is an evolving process
and it is not something to be frozen.
Is beauty contest
a cheap entertainment?
It is also accused that beauty contests are promoted as a cheap entertainment
as pornography in many countries is unlawful. It is also said that
those who have connections in the porno-world promote these contests.
I refute both the arguments, as many in the country do not even know
about Aishwarya Rai's performance in the beauty contest but they know
the movies in which she starred. So the beauty contests are not a
part of the (cheap) entertainment except may be for the elite and
the well-informed people.
Coming to the porn angle, if it is accused so because of the level
of physical exposures involved in such contests, these contests at
least in India are conducted by respectable organizations (e.g. Femina)
and are telecast. If the participants clad reduced attire that does
not mean it is cheap or porn. What is the level of exposure when a
girl participates in a swimming competition? Can she swim with 6 yards
saree clad on her? If you take the advertisement for panties (even
briefs!) either physical or pictorial models, some companies focus
their product in such a filthy way, to show the usefulness or effectiveness
of their product, that makes the viewer uncomfortable.
More than 80% of the censored movies depict heroines/heroes drenched
in rain and they leave nothing for the audiences' imagination. In
some movies, the scenes and the double meaning dialogues are so filthy
that it could only arouse vulgar feelings in young minds, depending
on their creativity. A more serious thing is that in our movies, of
late even in TV serials, the rape scene is shown with so much finer
detail and so explicitly that it can only create a havoc in the minds
of young people. These scenes show the physical (sexual) assault on
a woman as a common unwanted thing. The effect of these scenes on
the psychology and consequent degradation of the culture (to respect
a woman) is silently ignored by those who bother only about the exposure
of Aishwarya Rai-s and Sushmita Sen-s on the dais in a beauty contest.
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